Special Friends
Ministry

How it works

Every child gets a buddy and a plan that fits.

The same caring adult stays with each child through the Sunday school hour. Depending on the child and the day, the buddy might stay with them in class, teach the same lesson somewhere calmer, or take a break with them in the sensory room.

Inclusion

In the regular classroom

The child joins the children's ministry program with their buddy beside them to help.

Modified

Adapted activities

When a large group is too much, the buddy leads the same lesson one-on-one in a calmer setting.

Sensory room

A place to reset

For children who get overwhelmed easily, a room designed to meet their sensory needs.

A Sunday with Special Friends

Predictable, short, and built around the child

  1. Arrive

    Some children settle in the sensory room first. Others go right to class with their buddy.

  2. See the plan

    A picture schedule shows what's coming, so changes feel safe.

  3. About 5 min

    Move

    A movement warm-up: a hallway obstacle course, Simon Says or simple yoga.

  4. 15 to 20 min

    Bible time

    The week's Bible lesson, adapted with pictures, music and hands-on activities.

  5. Free time

    The child picks a picture card to choose what to play for the rest of the hour.

Make picture cards for your own Sunday

Moving toward the classroom

Full inclusion is the goal. Each child starts where they are.

Every child starts where they are and moves toward the classroom at their own pace. Tap or click a step to see what it looks like.

Top: most support. Bottom: in the classroom.

Buddies

You don't need a degree to be someone's friend.

A buddy is a steady friend who helps a child take part in church. Buddies have been grandparents, teenagers, college students and a car mechanic who had never done anything like it. Most say they came to love a child and left changed.

What a buddy provides

DiscipleshipFriendshipSafetyCommunication with parents

What makes a great buddy

  • A growing relationship with Christ
  • A willingness to learn
  • A desire to serve
Anyone willing to learn can be a buddy.
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